On your mark, Get set, Go!

What do you do when you realize you have been blaming your spouse for what’s not going well in your relationship? Or maybe you believe your partner is to blame, but you realize that expecting them to change isn’t working. Maybe you’re ready to step up and take...

The buck stops where?

We’ve been talking about focus and how it can be good if we focus on something worth moving our life toward, or bad if we become focused on what we think is wrong about another. If you realize you have been too focused on what is wrong in your life (or someone else),...

Straight Ahead

Back when I was learning to drive, I found it hard to keep the car driving straight in a smooth way. II drifted to the right and I would correct by steering to the left. Back and forth from left to right the car would move as I was always in reaction. My driving...

New Year’s Decisions

New years bring new opportunities and challenges. We never know what lies ahead, and maybe it is good that we don’t know. We stand at the beginning of a new adventure, and the unknown tomorrow awaits. It is unchartered territory, an unexplored world. The choices we...